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Irene C's avatar

Thank you for this! It made me reflect on how I *don’t* really identify as a leader-member of a worker co-op outside of the organization itself. I’m mostly just doing it.

*Blinks in Fiveness*

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Tamara's avatar

I don't know how deeply I've been reflecting. Sometimes reflecting can feel like beating myself up, a habit I would love to break. I think you've absolutely stumbled upon a big piece of truth, which is, essentially "practice what you preach." And perhaps an addendum--"and perhaps you won't have to preach at all." I know since the election I've connected more seriously with my sister, who was very depressed by it all. I had a disastrous trip to see my children during which there were hard feelings all around. I need to make a more concerted and conscious effort to express my love for them but it's difficult for reasons mostly to do with distance and me.

I have felt that involving myself more in all my communities would be a very good thing. As for asking myself what I love and what I love to do, those have always been hard. I love everything but I am not passionate about anything. I wonder if I have a basic lack of compassion for myself out of which comes a hesitancy to get too involved in people/things. I need a new therapist. :)

This is fairly rambly and I feel like I'm probably repeating things I've already said before. I agree very much with @kaleinthegarden (can I call you Kale?) that this space feels like a welcoming and transformative one.

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