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Joe LeBlanc's avatar

Loved this post Abi!

I engaged in fasting quite a bit while I was at the peak of my "stay in the closet at all costs" time. What I didn't realize at the time was that "all costs" included my heart. I was denying myself so I could be the person other people wanted me to be, instead of the person I was made to be.

I've done Lent a few times since. In years past, I've given up things like social media, coffee, and at the suggestion of my friend Marc, my Instant Pot! I was surprised by each time how I enjoyed it all.

But I'll admit: That first coffee on Easter... *mindblown*

This year, Lent is not for me. But I may pick it up again some year in the future!

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Stephanie Cain's avatar

This resonated with me:

"It showed up as a belief that I only deserved the struggle, the fight, the challenge."

I just had a conversation yesterday regarding Enneagram Eights and how we can be distracted or pulled off-focus by challenges, and the person I was chatting with said, "If it's not hard, is it even worth having?" She was sort of joking, but she was also acknowledging that this feels like something common in Eights, even though we're all typically seen as people who have an overabundance of confidence.

As for Lenten practices, I'm currently almost a month into a yoga practice that I started thanks to two readings of your "The Conscious Enneagram" and my growing understanding that my body is so full of unreleased tension that yoga could probably help with. So for Lent I'm going to make that practice even more deliberate, and you've been instrumental in that! Thank you!

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